People often look at their situations and wonder if the grass is really greener on the other side…. It may seem like the grass is greener, but it’s really not. The enemy makes the grass appear greener on the other side. For instance, even once we get married, there is still that threat of sexual temptation. Some women may look at their situations and think that they’re missing out on something. Does he make more money? Is he smarter? Is he better in bed? You don’t know what he might be working with. I always keep that in mind. Just don’t even go there. I don’t care how fine he is. Especially if you have a wonderful man to go home to everyday.
Marriages can start out rough because you’re trying to get used to being married. However, with time, it gets better. We all go through “seasons”. One couple may be going through spring while another is going through winter.
I appreciate the simple activities, like going shopping with my husband because everybody does not have a husband to go shopping with. So before you think about wanting to be single again, think about how it was when you were single……you wanted a husband. In spite of the difficulties that will arise (because that’s life), be content with what you have. If you disrupt that in any way, you’re going to get more drama than you need.